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Life Updates

This week had some bummer personal things happening–brief description of parent going into hospital & my health )

🐈‍⬛ The most curious cat, Mr W, has started going up onto the counters and sniffing every single food item I make, plus then trying to touch it and/or eat it. If I put a dirty dish in the sink, he tries to get in there at it. He also started drinking dirty sink water, which is gross, so I put a water bowl up on the counter to distract him from that and it seems to have worked.

Miss K is a little more chill but only because she doesn’t like jumping higher than the bed OR going into cabinets. She does like to sit on my lap for 5-8 hours a day, though, and despises my laptop. ;D

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Crossposted from Pixietails Club Blog.

New Music Monday - 13 October 2025

Oct. 13th, 2025 08:19 pm
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The regular weekly post for us to talk about any and all of our thoughts about the week's new releases.

NMIXX - Blue Valentine
TWS - Overdrive
Kino - Dirty Boy (feat. Jamie, UWA)
U-KNOW - Body Language (pre-release)
Bae Jinyoung - Round&Round
MEOVV - Burning Up
Hwasa - Good Goodbye
NiziU - Emotion

New MVs are also added to an ongoing youtube playlist.

Last week's MVs: 6 October

Feel free to add new comments in the replies for songs/MVs we missed.

[ Rec Something Wednesday | WIP Wednesday | Monthly General Chat | Comment Fest ]

personalising journals

Oct. 12th, 2025 01:04 pm
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since there are a bunch of people starting out their journeys here on dreamwidth, i thought i'd take a moment to share a few places that can help you make your journal, well, yours! there are some really good dreamwidth, basic html, and css primers out there so i'm not going to attempt to cover any of that here, just sharing a few communities with layouts and icons.

please don't take this to mean that this is something you need to do, you can absolutely pick a premade style and use it as is and upload an icon that you like and call it a day, or play around some with themes/layouts from the many really nice ones that exists in the journal styles tab, but there are also some really cool custom ones that are pretty easy to install! so without further ado:

LAYOUTS
[community profile] dreamwidthlayouts
[community profile] shinemagic
[community profile] pagans
[community profile] vigils
[community profile] coorhagen

ICONS
[community profile] yuripop
[community profile] insomniatic

i'm sure there are many more good places to get layouts or icons, but here on dreamwidth itself i personally really like yuripop - by the lovely [personal profile] luckyzukky - for mostly girl group kpop icons and stock image icons, and insomniatic has a diverse option of fandoms and stock image icons in various themes. any 100x100 icons will do the trick though, i know i found some on tumblr at least in the past?

eta: melo [personal profile] luckyzukky has just let me know that she has an icon request post open over at yuripop! read more about it there, but that can be a fun way to get some icons (she made my wonderful jungwon gif icons in a diff post earlier this year!)

i also know there used to be combability between (some?) old livejournal themes and dreamwidth, but i'm not sure if there has been any changes to the codes between the sites over the years that make it less than ideal to try, and maybe it's better to start small here lol. and many layout creators, even those with their own comms for that, tend to crosspost to the first community linked!

i'm currently trying out a new-to-me layout and i'm not sure if the extreme minimalism is something i'm gonna stay with or if i'll try something else soonish, or even return to my previous theme that i really liked.. as you can tell, i'm not able to make layouts myself lmao - i do make icons for myself on occasion though! used to make most of mine even, just resizing pics and maybe some light editing.. but sometimes it's nice to get some icons that are ready to use and the correct size already lol

16 Halloween Stock Icons

Oct. 11th, 2025 11:38 pm
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I'm working on even more icons too at the moment, but I thought I'd just release these Halloween Stock ones on their own together! Felt like creating some icons for the season, as well as to play around and experiment. Also stock icons are just fun. Testing out a different icon display generator I came across as well!



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It’s been stuck in my head all day; I graciously pass this ear worm to you, my friends. 🥰

Crossposted from Pixietails Club Blog.

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this is not a paid post. but it could be, eagle dot cool team, if you're reading this. hit me up. hello. wink wonk.

so Pinterest did a big fucky-wucky earlier this year, which seems to be ongoing, and i didn't really like using it for my reference boards anyway. it was the best thing i had but i am always antsy about anything that depends on Being Online or Being Beholden To Someone Else's TOS. it's a sandcastle on someone else's beach. refern was a nice alternative that i tried out, but a major UI change 2 weeks into using it put me off, and then uh, it died. which is a tragedy-- it was really nice even if i didn't love the update.

cool stuff you can do with eagle
what i've always wanted is basically a local booru system, a la Zerochan and its bretheren. that is pretty much what eagle.cool is. you drop in your files and you can create a tag system basically any way you like. and in addition to images it can organize:
  • videos
  • fonts
  • sound files
  • svgs
  • 3d objects
when i found out i could organize sounds and music in it i screamed, because that would have been so useful when i was working on Potion Stand Story. but it will save my ass for Iron Company.
some of these things require you to download some of its extensions, which is done in-app and is super easy.

you can create individual reference libraries for different subjects. you can folder and subfolder. you can organize your tags by folders and color-code them. you can search by color (and all sorts of other things). you can even import your pinterest straight into it, which would have been nice if i'd noticed up-front because i did that the wfdownloader way and it was a lot messier LMAO.

it also comes with a browser extension so you can right-click and save things directly to Eagle, AND easily mass-yoink images from a page. and it saves sources automatically. S'BEAUTIFUL.

it is not free software, but it is a one time purchase, a rare and beautiful and reasonably priced thing these days. (free alternative later in this post.) it is probably the best 35 bucks i've spent this year. i've put a lot of hours into organizing and tagging my collection of reference images and stock photos and so on and it's so nice. it's so nice to be able to put custom thumbnails on fonts and actually be able to see them in their natural environment instead of squint at Windows' font viewer and try to mentally project how something will look in CSP. it's SOOOOOOOO nice to be struggling with drawing a thing and then search my tag for that thing and find the ref image i need without a bunch of hunt-and-peck through my old reference folders (which windows refuses to generate thumbnails for lmfao GOD).

at this point im pretty much using Eagle exclusively as the way that i access images on my hard drive. windows photo viewer? isn't that the bitch who sometimes takes entire minutes to open a single image for no reason? yeah haha i don't really know her. file explorer? more like file exploder. exploding with farts. because it's ass. in comparison to Eagle.

potential caveats...
  • technically there are "AI tools" (🙄🖕) but they are plug-ins/add-ons that are not preinstalled and that you do not have to use. the software will never pester you about AI crap; you don't even have to have it visible in your GUI. on the grand scale of software companies participating in The Great Shill, they are, frankly, doing a pretty poor job of shilling given that i didn't notice they were there until after purchase LOL. they'll be fine when the bubble pops.
  • Eagle makes its own library in its own folder, so it does store an extra copy of everything. BUT: you can export things again really easily. so if you end up having to delete the original folders to save space, it's relatively simple to just have Eagle spit all that stuff back out if you need to. also, syncing Eagle across devices with a cloud service works like a charm.
  • no mobile option as far as i can tell. desktop only. idc, im old
  • now when i do actually have to "open a folder" and "locate a file" in file explorer i feel like i have been teleported back to the middle ages and i am stepping around horse poop in the street
and a free alternative!
Allusion is a visual library manager that integrates with my beloved PureRef. it doesn't have as many features, but it does allow you to create a tagged, browse-able image library. it also pulls things from the folders on your hard drive rather than creating its own separate library with copies.

bathroom art, bot-blocking, trains

Oct. 10th, 2025 08:41 am
tozka: title character sitting with a friend (lady lovely locks & friends)
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Hello, happy Friday! Some more links for y’all to peruse:

On Dreamwidth

[personal profile] casey28 posted these cute (mostly vintage) Halloween icons. And here are some Addams family icons (90’s movie version) from [personal profile] chocolatefrogs!

[personal profile] melannen has a guide for how to make your own fanfiction archive on Neocities (or other free indie site hosts similar to). (h/t [personal profile] ysabetwordsmith in [community profile] newcomers)

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Crossposted from Pixietails Club Blog.

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Book Info

Enemy Feminisms: TERFs, Policewomen, and Girlbosses Against Liberation by Sophie Lewis (2025)

Genre: Nonfiction

LibraryThing: https://www.librarything.com/work/32671363/

Acquired from: Library (ebook)

Started reading: October 8, 2025

Finished reading: TBD

Reading Notes

0%: Started reading this to give my brain a little workout and so far it’s working! This is also the first ebook I’m doing a reading log for, and I haven’t decided how to mark down the annotation locations. Based on how my KOreader Sync plugin downloads things (eg without percentages), looks like it’s gonna be grouped under chapter titles.

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Crossposted from Pixietails Club Blog.

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Yuletide has finished the nomination period and the tagset is open. Under the cut are the kpop nominations, i.e. all the fandoms and characters you can request and offer to write. I think I caught everything but let me know if I missed something. Sign ups start on 14 October.

Yuletide nominations )




The Korean Fandoms Exchange is open for sign-ups!

@thefridayfive 2025.10.10

Oct. 10th, 2025 06:37 pm
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https://thefridayfive.dreamwidth.org/144268.html

Name five…

1. ... things you can't live without.

1) Phone 2) internet 3) A/C, 4) shower with heater and water pressure, 5) bug spray

2. ... of the best moments in your life.
Mm, I don't hold on to memories very well (which makes me worry about my mental health in the future) so I'll keep it to the last two years:

5 moments, with pictures
1) Decompressing with my friends in an AirBNB after a wedding. The weddings were great, of course, but I'm a textbook low-energy introvert so I remember the chill moments—or at least the feeling of relaxation—better lol.

2) Sleeping like a baby for the first time in ages in Star Hostel Taipei Main. I had been carrying so much anxiety so it was nice being in a comfy bed with cool A/C in a quiet neighborhood, and not having to worry about wasting electricity or water. I was very anxious about water supply in 2024, among other things, and my insomnia was pretty bad.
my room: a bed by the window, and a writing desk by a bed

3) The morning after an overnight birthday celebration (a joint one in the sense that my brother planned everything and we just split the costs), I spotted a lot of cats (that turned out to be a family!) and had a very good homey breakfast that I still remember the taste of (not pictured: the ensaymada we had instead of cake).
cat sleeping on a chair with one of its feet dangling off the edge
breakfast platter with rice, homemade sausages and bacon, fries, fried egg
a bowl of champorado (chocolate porridge)

4) Watching Six the Musical! It was a matinee show so I wasn't worried about getting home. I was by myself and therefore free of any considerations of other people and also free of any self-consciousness. AND the show was super fun. (I have zero energy for fun so this was a novel feeling for me.)

5) The time I followed the sound of a strange bird call to find a pied fantail perched on the terrace. When I approached, it turned around and yelled at me. It was so pretty!!! And looked so angy!!! Now every time I see a pied fantail in the sky and see the white markings of its beautiful tail I feel such a pang of admiration and a longing to see one visit again.
pied fantail


3. ... celebrities you can't stand.
All celebrities who became (past and present) senators. In ascending order of how much I can't stand them: Tito Sotto, the Tulfo brothers, Bong Revilla, and Robin Padilla.

4. ... books you enjoy(ed) reading.
Off the top of my head, including comics: 1) the Radch trilogy, 2) Witch Hat Atelier, 3) Semantic Error, 4) Run with the Wind, 5) Goodbye My Princess

5. ... items in your purse/backpack/on your desk.
BACKPACK: Laconic planner, pencil case, retractable correction tape, glue stick, foldable umbrella
DESK: water bottle, computer, cat-shaped coaster, washi tape that I'm too lazy to put away, pens I don't use but can't throw away because there's still ink in them.

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Random stuff:
exercise, journaling, and this year's mooncakes
  • I did end up finishing Yoga with Kassandra's 30-day challenge in September. I had to make up two skipped days in the first week of October, but now I'm freeeeeee. I also got a couple of Discord friends into it, which I wasn't expecting lol.

  • We're on the last quarter of the year and I've managed to keep my planner filled up, which I guess is also why I've been very bad at taking photos of it, even though I keep meaning to for documentation purposes. I got a Hobonichi for next year because it felt like time for a change and I figured I should try the daily format at least once in my life? I'm just so worried I'll hate it, especially since writing has been suuuch a chore for me lately. Just updating Dreamwidth/Letterboxd takes 200% of my energy and gives me zero satisfaction. (I do it because my memory and ability to put thoughts into words are worryingly precarious, and posting entries is my band-aid solution for that.)

  • Didn't celebrate Midautumn in any way this year (which is not unusual, though I usually like to take the opportunity to eat something nice), but I did get mooncakes that were advertised as ~artisan~. Tried a snowskin one for the first time (champagne chocolate filling) and decided that it's not for me, for reasons of "If I wanted a decadent chocolate dessert, I could just get myself cake". The traditional ones I got were white lotus, red bean, black sesame, and houjicha.

    white lotus mooncake with double yolk

    The white lotus was nice and very traditional, and the yolks were thankfully not chalky but curiously not salty, I guess because they make their own? The less-salty yolks worked well enough for the white lotus which had a more delicate profile anyway, but for the other flavors which were much sweeter I could have used the regular level of saltiness. The other flavors also tasted same-y, except that the houjicha had a grassy aftertaste. Which was a bummer because I really wanted a good black sesame flavor. ;__; AND I probably could have found red bean elsewhere at a cheaper price point.
  • Otsuma Kotaka (1884-1970)

    Oct. 10th, 2025 08:06 pm
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    Otsuma Kotaka was born in 1884 in a Hiroshima village, the youngest of six children; her maiden name was Kumada. Because she was born at rice-planting time, she went nameless for five months until her family had a moment to submit a notice of her birth (“Kotaka” is said to have been a dialect corruption of “komatta ko” or “problem child”). Bright and hardworking, orphaned by fourteen, she became an elementary school teacher after finishing what we would now call junior high school, studying sewing on the side.

    In 1901 she quit her job and set off for Tokyo, staying with an uncle’s family while she trained in Japanese and Western sewing (she had hoped to study math and physics, but was told it wasn’t womanly) and simultaneously studied for her formal elementary teaching qualifications. A full-fledged teacher by twenty-two, she took up a job in Kamakura.

    In 1907 she married Otsuma Ryoma, an ex-military public building contractor who was then thirty-six. They were introduced by a cousin of hers, who ran Kotaka and Ryoma through a simplified marriage ceremony almost before Kotaka had realized that it was anything more than an initial meeting. On their way home, Ryoma invited a horrified Kotaka to visit the Ueno Exposition with him; they explored in silence, ate an awkward bowl of noodles, and he saw her back to her uncle’s house and left her there.

    The two eventually did move in together; with Ryoma’s cooperation, Kotaka opened a sewing school in their new house, which became very popular. Eventually, overflowing their downstairs, it became the Tokyo Women’s Handcraft School and then the officially accredited Otsuma School of Handcrafts (whose motto was “Have some shame” or “Don’t be a disgrace”), moving into its own building in 1918. Three years later the school received governmental approval as the Otsuma Higher Girls’ School. In the 1920s and 1930s Kotaka published how-to sewing manuals that became bestsellers.

    During the war, an Otsuma education was held up as the model training for ryosai kenbo or the “good wives, wise mothers” considered the Japanese woman’s ideal form. Afterward, Kotaka was purged for some time due to her support for the wartime Japanese government. She was later, however, to receive various imperial awards for her services to education; the Otsuma foundation now includes education for girls from junior high through graduate school, with a focus on home economics. Kotaka died in 1970, incidentally outliving her husband by over forty years.

    Sources
    Nakae
    https://www.otsuma.jp/kotaka (Japanese) Covers of the books Kotaka published.

    servus, as they say

    Oct. 9th, 2025 08:40 pm
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    It's been basically a month since I last posted... I haven't even replied to the comments on my last post. Sorry! I promise I will, eventually. I don't know why it's been so hard for me lately. I dropped everything I was doing more or less. Well, I can guess, maybe, which is that I'm at the very end of my hormonal cycle and overdue for my next testosterone shot, but I don't know if that's really it, lol... I think I'm genuinely a little stressed waiting for Z-A and it's making me want to go into hermit mode x_o

    I feel a little silly doing a life update when I haven't been keeping up with anybody else, but in case this interests anyone, here's a rundown of what's been going on in my life lately:

    • I started taking German classes! I've had 4 so far. I'm going with Noah, through a free program provided by James's job, which is very nice. I was very apprehensive about it, but it's going really well. The teacher is very nice and I'm having way more fun than I expected. I also managed to understand that the receptionist was asking for my name at the dentist yesterday so, you know, small victories, lol.

    • The Z-A countdown is still going well! Only four people have dropped out/been no shows in total, and I'm still waiting on one drawing, so overall pretty good. I do think organizing it is taking more of my energy than I thought too though. At least it's preparing me for future endeavors...

    • I'm really into Death Stranding lately. Been playing for a week and a half, I want to say? I have no idea how far or close to the ending I am, but I'm in Episode 5 and constantly getting distracted by all the cargo I could be delivering. It's nice to be playing a videogame! I don't know if I'll be able to get to the end before Z-A comes out, though...

    That's it, embarrassingly, apart from real life stuff that's not super interesting. I've made no progress in webdev, I'm behind on most of my events except [community profile] ficinabox and even that is at a standstill right now, and who even knows if I'll manage to get a letter out for [community profile] yuletide. I wanted to do [community profile] ficortreat this year but it's already October 9th and it's probably better for me to give it a pass. I feel like this makes it seem like I'm doing bad but my mood has not been too terrible? Outside of feeling awful about not getting the stuff I'd like to get done done. I'm actually procrastinating on getting stuff done by writing this, if you can believe it...

    I miss blogging, but it requires a kind of social energy out of me I just don't really have right now. I'm still thinking about webdev a lot but can't really bring myself to even open VSCodium. Honestly, the thing I dread the most right now is having to write an end of the year post and having to admit I just didn't do much this year, lol... Ah well.

    As always, if you read this, I hope you're doing alright. m(_ _)m Hopefully I'll build my energy back up soon...

    Acerby, Spinatia, and "Girl Kits"

    Oct. 9th, 2025 07:56 am
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    blue and grey humanoid robot model kit Acerby sits on the edge of a dark desk


    Hi! I build Gundam model kits, though until a few months ago, I'd taken a break from those. Upon my return, I discovered Bandai has multiple other lines of kits, with the "30 Minute" designation, including 30 Minute Missions (an original mecha line), 30 Minute Fantasy (original fantasy), and 30 Minute Sisters (Cute/Combat Girls).

    Other companies also make what are commonly called "girl kits" or "mecha musume" as well, but my experiences so far are with Bandai's 30MM line. There are also some masculine silhouettes among certain lines. Quite a few Girl Kits border on NSFW so please view with discretion.

    (Note: I have no affiliation with the shop I've linked to aside from positive experiences with purchases. They just tend to have a lot of product photos available.)

    Among the 30 Minute Missions line, the Acerby and Spinatia types have distinctly feminine silhouettes, the Acerby more so. While the line's lore encompasses a few paragraphs, it's implied that the Acerby models don't have cockpits. Read into that as you will. ^_^;

    Pictures! )

    Do the 30 Minute kits really only take 30 minutes to build? No, not really. Someone with a lot of experience could probably do it but even a fairly simple kit like Acerby took me a couple hours.

    Tools required are nippers and a knife/sanding stick. Markers/paint/etc can do more but they're not required. Everything pops together, no glue necessary. (Some other Girl Kits may need more tools and work, but the Bandai lines are pretty easy to build and have clear multi-language instructions.)
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    Only one song can survive:

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